Top 10 Tips for Married Women

Mother is the first person to give tips and advices to a newly married woman or to a girl who is expected to get married. Women can also seek tips and advices from their friends who are already married. Read on to find more about the top ten tips for women for leading a happy married life.

Marriage has a different meaning for women. After marriage, the girl enters a new life and a new home too. She leaves her relatives and dear ones and starts making new relationships. Everything is quite overwhelming and sensitive too.

It becomes very difficult for a newly wed to cope with all the responsibilities and with a new environment and routine. After few years of marriage when everything gets into a specific routine, there arise some different problems and issues. In fact, life is full of ups and downs and men and women have to tackle and handle things properly.

Tips for Newly Married Women

If you are a newly married woman, you should consider following tips.

• Get up early in the morning and complete your daily work, take bath and get ready.
  
  
• Prepare yourself mentally to work for your in-laws. Help your mother-in-law.
  
  
• Arrange your room before you leave it and put aside the clothes that need to be washed in laundry bucket.
  
  
• Take initiative for breakfast and do not starve yourself too. Have breakfast on time and then start preparing for lunch and dinner.
  
  
• Follow the way and if you find the environment suitable, try out one of your favourite recipes some day.
  
  
• Be prepared to face some irritability or tantrums. You have entered into a new environment and so, you need to get adjusted.
  
  
• Even if you find something unusual or unacceptable, do not react immediately. Calm down and analyse the situation keeping in mind other people too.
  
  
• While taking care of your in-laws and other family members, never forget your husband. Make sure you are there to see him off when he leaves for office.

Top 10 Tips for Married Women

Have a look at the top 10 tips for married women.

1. Your Identity is Important - Do not forget who you are. It is good to serve family members with selflessness, but you should not diminish your identity doing all this.
   
   
2. Share Responsibilities - Remember, you too are a human being. So, do not take the whole and sole responsibility of the house. Share with your husband, sister-in-law and mother-in-law too.
   
   
3. Focus on Positive Points - Make sure you do not always take out negative points of all. Understand your husband and his family too and then without accepting the intolerable terms, adjust yourself.
   
   
4. Take Care of Your Husband - Do not forget to take care of your hubby and his interest. Remember, sex is very important for men and so keep aside time and energy for that. Discuss if there arises any problem.
   
   
5. Spend Time with Family - Make it a habit of taking at least one meal together with the entire family. This strengthens bonding.
   
   
6. Financial Independence - Do not depend on husband and family for finance completely.
   
   
7. Admire your Husband - Avoid criticising your husband in front of anyone else.
   
   
8. Do not Fight Dirty - Try to avoid fighting grubby. Even if you apologize afterwards, the bad memories will remain for lifetime.
   
   
9. Think Yourself as a Woman - Make use of your wisdom and remember that you are beautiful with feminine powers.
   
   
10. Marriage is Not Always 50-50 - At times your husband might expect a 75-25 relationship. This is the beauty of marriage and a lifetime relationship provided this does not turn out as duty afterwards.

In addition to all this, you should also give some time to your husband and let him do things in his way. Do not always expect him to work the way you think is right. Make it acceptable for both of you.

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