Catch your cheating husband

Do you have a nagging suspicion that your husband is cheating on you You may be right, but don't just jump to conclusions. And, more importantly, don't accuse him unless you've caught him red-handed or are willing to stake your life on it. Play detective for a while, and find out the real story.

Here are some tips:

1. Your husband has just hired a new secretary. 'Is she pretty?' you ask. 'Naah!' he retorts. And then, one fine day you run into her and find out that she's drop dead gorgeous. Maybe your husband thinks so too, and is feeling guilty about it so he lied to you about her looks. Or maybe, just maybe, he's got something else up his sleeve..
2. You find traces of lipstick on his shirt. His excuse A colleague accidentally bumped into him. Hah!
3. Has he suddenly started coming home late from work The standard excuse is that he's working late, but you can't buy that all the time. Men want to finish their work and then come home to their family. If that's not what's happening, it's time to start thinking.
4. The obvious telephone call from a woman - when he speaks to her, he whispers. And, you get the feeling he's speaking in monosyllables so you don't find out what the conversation is all about.
5. He's suddenly a lot more conscious of his looks and his body. He's got a new haircut, has suddenly started working out more and seems to be on a 'getting fit' spree.
6. He has been getting headaches a bit too often for comfort.
7. You find long strands of hair on the seat of his car - or on his jacket - and they ain't yours!
8. He brings you flowers or diamonds for apparently no reason at all.

Catch your cheating wife

You come home early from office, find another pair of male shoes that don't fit and dump it in your shoe rack mumbling, 'Oh well, another one for the collection. 'Sounds familiar Wake up buddy, your wife has not been spending her free time at the mall. It's time to smell the bitter coffee.

So how do you know for sure if your wife is cheating on you, You have the option of getting downright dirty and sneaky. Mini cameras, pen bugs are all available on the net, so if you're a tech savvy guy you'll have no problem tracing her movements, spying on her and catching her in the act! But a far classier alternative would be to start observing her behavior.

Here are a few giveaways that your wife may be having an affair.

1. She walks around the house in a daze, acting more like a teenager with a life-altering crush than your wife of ten years.
2. She has been getting too many headaches. Aha! Never ignore this one.
3. She's just hired a personal trainer who looks like a cross between Antonio Banderas and Akshaye Khanna. And, he's got the body of Salman Khan. Uh, oh.
4. She's suddenly splurged on sexy lingerie. It's possible she's done that for you, but if you are not seeing her in the garters and corsets, you're in trouble.
5. You find a charge slip in the wastebasket from a nearby motel.
6. You answer the phone, and whoever is on the other line hangs up. When she answers it the speaker mysteriously appears.
7. You come home one day and find a cigarette butt in the ashtray, yet nobody in the house smokes.
8. New clothes. A lot of new clothes. An entire new wardrobe possibly.
9. She's been going for a lot more girls nights out, and has been coming home later and later.
10. She keeps saying, 'I love you,' over and over again as if by rote, but she certainly doesn't act like she's in love.
11. She starts making excuses and is suddenly very busy to take an extended vacation.
12. She murmurs another man's name in her sleep. Or yells out someone else's name when you're having sex. Oh, boy! Let's see her try to get out of that! And if she does, you're either very innocent.. or not very intelligent.